Two timing and poly-relationships are very different, trust me; the point is communication.
For example! If Jolyne had never told me about another girl she was interested in, and decided to pursue a relationship, that would be cheating, and two-timing! But instead, she talked to me and asked if I'd be open to either starting a relationship alongside her with that person, or even just 'sharing' so to speak.
I wound up going with the first one because honestly they're both great.
The point is though, all three of us agreed- that's what makes the difference. When someone wants and wants and wants for themselves to the detriment of another person's desires, that's where you're going wrong.
For this though, this would be a matter of choosing to wait or not so don't worry about all that unless someone actually appears. Right now, you don't have to rush into it. And honestly Scorpia's a sweet gal, she'll understand if you want to take things slow!
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Date: 2021-05-01 03:08 am (UTC)For example! If Jolyne had never told me about another girl she was interested in, and decided to pursue a relationship, that would be cheating, and two-timing! But instead, she talked to me and asked if I'd be open to either starting a relationship alongside her with that person, or even just 'sharing' so to speak.
I wound up going with the first one because honestly they're both great.
The point is though, all three of us agreed- that's what makes the difference. When someone wants and wants and wants for themselves to the detriment of another person's desires, that's where you're going wrong.
For this though, this would be a matter of choosing to wait or not so don't worry about all that unless someone actually appears. Right now, you don't have to rush into it. And honestly Scorpia's a sweet gal, she'll understand if you want to take things slow!