Oh! Okay, we're going to start on this part first actually! [Carly wheezes.]
Akane.
It is not wrong, or perverted, to love someone when you are not going to have children. Likewise, for those who cannot have children. And more likewise, for those who do not get married.
I'm going to emphasize these points, with some key factors. For example! [Though she takes some care to avoid same-sex examples just for now. Baby steps on the issues here, babysteps...]
Did you know that for some people, they literally cannot afford to get married, or they will be put into so much debt, they cannot survive! But, they still want to spend their lives together the way a married couple would. They can't be married, but does that make them doing so without the paperwork 'perverted'?
As another example...
Some people just. Can't have kids, Akane. Medically! It's entirely impossible! Maybe they can adopt- and believe me adoption isn't nearly as terrible as it sounds- but the point here stands. And some people just don't want kids! But, they might still want to get married...
[She trails off a little, before continuing.] ...So...I need to ask again.
What specifically about a couple being together...are you considering 'perverted'? 'Wrong', for that matter?
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Date: 2020-04-19 02:17 am (UTC)Oh! Okay, we're going to start on this part first actually! [Carly wheezes.]
Akane.
It is not wrong, or perverted, to love someone when you are not going to have children. Likewise, for those who cannot have children. And more likewise, for those who do not get married.
I'm going to emphasize these points, with some key factors. For example! [Though she takes some care to avoid same-sex examples just for now. Baby steps on the issues here, babysteps...]
Did you know that for some people, they literally cannot afford to get married, or they will be put into so much debt, they cannot survive! But, they still want to spend their lives together the way a married couple would. They can't be married, but does that make them doing so without the paperwork 'perverted'?
As another example...
Some people just. Can't have kids, Akane. Medically! It's entirely impossible! Maybe they can adopt- and believe me adoption isn't nearly as terrible as it sounds- but the point here stands. And some people just don't want kids! But, they might still want to get married...
[She trails off a little, before continuing.] ...So...I need to ask again.
What specifically about a couple being together...are you considering 'perverted'? 'Wrong', for that matter?