He's not. I don't think there's any circumstances in which he won't be a sulky, snide bitch about everything at the very least.
But I'm fairly certain that if I officially break up with him because he treated his daughter unconscionably, even though that *is* a significant reason for why I'm breaking up with him, he'd react even worse, because I went behind his back to find that out, when I *knew* he wanted to keep the parts of his past involving his spouses and kid to *himself*.
And then, you know, he probably will want to know who told me. And he might even find the post from the boobies incident, which I have done my best to make sure he never sees.
So in order to protect my source, I need to figure out another reason to break up with him. Which can't be I want to see other people, because then he'll concentrate all his vindictive spite on whatever age appropriate male friend he'll assume I've been fucking behind his back.
That's why I need the week of brainstorming better reasons, to be honest. And why I might have to pay the 'oh no I went home' card if nothing else seems like it will work. That seems like the most likely way for him to be merely a giant bitch about things and not especially vindictive.
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But I'm fairly certain that if I officially break up with him because he treated his daughter unconscionably, even though that *is* a significant reason for why I'm breaking up with him, he'd react even worse, because I went behind his back to find that out, when I *knew* he wanted to keep the parts of his past involving his spouses and kid to *himself*.
And then, you know, he probably will want to know who told me. And he might even find the post from the boobies incident, which I have done my best to make sure he never sees.
So in order to protect my source, I need to figure out another reason to break up with him. Which can't be I want to see other people, because then he'll concentrate all his vindictive spite on whatever age appropriate male friend he'll assume I've been fucking behind his back.
That's why I need the week of brainstorming better reasons, to be honest. And why I might have to pay the 'oh no I went home' card if nothing else seems like it will work. That seems like the most likely way for him to be merely a giant bitch about things and not especially vindictive.