.... [Carly, for quite a while, is quiet. Mostly because she's. Trying. So very hard to just take it in and- ooooh yes Japan does like that 'crushes on girls are just childish' thing huh...]
Hooh, boy, there's a lot to talk to you about here huh...
First!
I think we need to take the word 'perverted', and separate it from some of the things you're associating it with.
The boys you know were...definitely perverts. Also the men. That's not necessarily something people realize they're doing wrong, and...sometimes, people are just Bad People. And sometimes, they learn better! So you are right, a lot of boys like that will ultimately grow up, look back, and realize they were being horrible!
That's not because of 'nature' though. That's because of someone teaching them.
But the thing is, I'm getting the feeling that you're not just categorizing a teenage boy forcing himself on others- and that is Assault, we're going to just call that assault here because that's what it is- as 'perversion'. I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, I'm definitely making a few guesses based on what I'm hearing!
[She adjusts her glasses.] ...But I definitely need to hear exactly what it is about 'perverted stuff' that is that way, 'unless' it's between two opposing genders and sexes here.
[...]
...I'm glad you did contact me though, at least. It...sounds like something you need a talk about, even just so that you can feel a little better and know a little better too. And phew! I don't know about you, but if your name is any indication, we're both from a country that really doesn't teach kids any better, WOW! And I'm saying that from beyond 2020...
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Date: 2020-04-19 01:59 am (UTC)Hooh, boy, there's a lot to talk to you about here huh...
First!
I think we need to take the word 'perverted', and separate it from some of the things you're associating it with.
The boys you know were...definitely perverts. Also the men. That's not necessarily something people realize they're doing wrong, and...sometimes, people are just Bad People. And sometimes, they learn better! So you are right, a lot of boys like that will ultimately grow up, look back, and realize they were being horrible!
That's not because of 'nature' though. That's because of someone teaching them.
But the thing is, I'm getting the feeling that you're not just categorizing a teenage boy forcing himself on others- and that is Assault, we're going to just call that assault here because that's what it is- as 'perversion'. I mean, correct me if I'm wrong, I'm definitely making a few guesses based on what I'm hearing!
[She adjusts her glasses.] ...But I definitely need to hear exactly what it is about 'perverted stuff' that is that way, 'unless' it's between two opposing genders and sexes here.
[...]
...I'm glad you did contact me though, at least. It...sounds like something you need a talk about, even just so that you can feel a little better and know a little better too. And phew! I don't know about you, but if your name is any indication, we're both from a country that really doesn't teach kids any better, WOW! And I'm saying that from beyond 2020...